Are you still having to ASK for oral sex?
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Sometimes I see something or read something that really rubs me the wrong way. Not in a sexual way, well in this case I guess it is in a sexual way. 
On this particular afternoon as I’m sitting at my computer, this “something” happens to be a cutesy little poster on facebook about how women have to be coaxed into giving their man a good ol’ BJ. Yep, that proverbial gold mine for men. You know; blow the horn, smoke the pole, talk on the bone-a-phone, oralgamie. Is there really a breed of women that doesn’t enjoy this act? And if that’s the case, what exactly is the reason or reasons?
I can say that personally I’ve been in relationships where the guy isn’t too in tune with a woman’s needs. That’s my polite way of saying that he really doesn’t care a flying fuck if his mate gets off, he’s in it all for himself. And 3 minutes later (if you’re lucky) he’s done and happy. And in those cases, I do understand the hesitation. But most men really do care that their women are satisfied, don’t they? And when that’s the case, what is more arousing for a woman than giving immense pleasure to her partner? And yaffling the yogurt cannon is truly pleasurable for the vast majority of men that I’ve met. Listening to them talk, you’d think they’d rather have that than sit front row center at their favorite ball game. And it’s hard to imagine a woman that doesn’t get incredibly aroused when her man is really enjoying her talents. That low, groaning noise a man makes when the pleasure is so great he can’t even form words? That’s the best aphrodisiac a woman can experience.
So if it’s not a selfish mate, what is it? Do you somehow think it’s unladylike or dirty? Well ladies, if that’s the case, it’s time to break out of your old-fashioned habits and have some amazing fun with your man! If you’ve never done it before and you’re afraid of making a mistake, trust me, go slow and have fun and you’ll do fine. Ask your man if you can give it a try. I have a very strong feeling he will not say “NO”. But ladies, do NOT, I repeat, do NOT miss out on this lovely bit of fun. Once you hear your man moan, you will get just as much pleasure from it as he will!
So women, it’s time! Time to break out of those old-fashioned ways. Next time your man rolls over to give you a kiss in bed, roll him over on his back, kiss him on the lips and then work your way down. By the time you get to his lower abdomen he should be in heaven and you’ll be excited beyond belief. Have some fun with sex today, start right now in fact! Sex isn’t a chore, it’s a gift. And it gets better every time you get it!
Oh, and if you’ve got a selfish partner, dump his ass and find yourself a man who is willing to give and to GET the most pleasure from sex.
